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4 Tendencies


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We found a helpful article from the author of The Happiness Project, Gretchen Rubin. https://www.positivelypositive.com/2019/08/10/are-you-annoying-i-know-i-am-how-understanding-your-tendency-can-help/

There are 4 tendencies: Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels.

Upholders may be judgemental and stick to plans.

Questioners obviously like to ask lots of questions but may not like to answer them.

Obligers may have trouble following through on plans for themselves.

Rebels will resist being told what to do and be annoyed when nudged too often.

Which one are you? Which one is your partner? For more examples and details, check out the article link above. There's also a free quiz to be sure of which tendency you have.